Hi everyone, I posted a new episode to my podcast, Marguerita Vorobioffs Podcast.

Please click the link below to view it.

http://marguerita.podomatic.com/entry/2010-09-03T21_03_36-07_00

See you there!

- Marguerita

Success … Whose Definition Are You Living By?

Who’s definition of success are you living by? Your parents? Your teachers? Siblings? Friends? Mentors? Or Yours?

We are indoctrinated from the time we are born with the standards, and expectations of our families, friends and society.

We are expected to behave and perform in a particular way and achieve certain things that are part of the conditioning of our society, lifetime after lifetime, and generation after generation. The question is, who made up these standards and expectations and are they truly serving us?

Certainly, cultural beliefs and moral standards are a necessary part of our lives and largely what distinguishes us from the animal kingdom. They are our code of conduct, much of which is like an unwritten law that enables us to live within our human community with hopefully some sense of harmony.

The question is, how many of these expectations are serving us and how are we defining our level of success?

Are you trying to live up to impossible expectations for yourself? And are you failing to recognise and realise your true brilliance because you are not exploring your own unique gifts and talents, but instead performing roles that others consider acceptable and ‘right’?

Do you even know what your own unique gifts and talents are? What are your strengths and are you capitalising on those?

You are here on this planet for a purpose? Out of 6 billion people on the planet, there is not one single other person who is exactly like you. Your whole, true self is as unique as a fingerprint and as beautiful as a snowflake. These are not impossible standards. This is absolute truth. And when you live from that space, sharing your true brilliance with the rest of the planet, life will unfold in such spectacular and remarkable ways that you could not possibly have imagined.

This may sound all very idealistic if you have not embraced this kind of philosophy previously. And how do you discover your own true brilliance and start to realise your full potential? Start by becoming aware of everything you do and why you are doing it. Are you doing it because others believe you should be doing, or because it makes your heart sing?

Of course, we all have responsibilities we have accepted and I am not saying to abandon these. If we have taken them on, then it is important we ensure in the process of transitioning to a life on purpose that others are not hurt and abandoned. However, by focusing on being the best we can be in all ways, everyone will benefit when we begin to fulfil our destiny and live the life we truly deserve.

If it all seems to hard, then do not say ‘I can’t’, Instead ask ‘How can I?’, and be open for the answer to come to you in ways you may not even expect.

We are all here to serve by being our glorious selves completely, with no need for excuse or explanation. Live from that space and prepare yourself for magic to happen.

For my 10 Essential Tips To Success visit www.healingandabundance.com.

Who’s definition of success are you living by? Your parents? Your teachers? Siblings? Friends? Mentors? Or Yours?

We are indoctrinated from the time we are born with the standards, and expectations of our families, friends and society.

We are expected to behave and perform in a particular way and achieve certain things that are part of the conditioning of our society, lifetime after lifetime, and generation after generation. The question is, who made up these standards and expectations and are they truly serving us?

Certainly, cultural beliefs and moral standards are a necessary part of our lives and largely what distinguishes us from the animal kingdom. They are our code of conduct, much of which is like an unwritten law that enables us to live within our human community with hopefully some sense of harmony.

The question is, how many of these expectations are serving us and how are we defining our level of success?

Are you trying to live up to impossible expectations for yourself? And are you failing to recognise and realise your true brilliance because you are not exploring your own unique gifts and talents, but instead performing roles that others consider acceptable and ‘right’?

Do you even know what your own unique gifts and talents are? What are your strengths and are you capitalising on those?

You are here on this planet for a purpose? Out of 6 billion people on the planet, there is not one single other person who is exactly like you. Your whole, true self is as unique as a fingerprint and as beautiful as a snowflake. These are not impossible standards. This is absolute truth. And when you live from that space, sharing your true brilliance with the rest of the planet, life will unfold in such spectacular and remarkable ways that you could not possibly have imagined.

This may sound all very idealistic if you have not embraced this kind of philosophy previously. And how do you discover your own true brilliance and start to realise your full potential? Start by becoming aware of everything you do and why you are doing it. Are you doing it because others believe you should be doing, or because it makes your heart sing?

Of course, we all have responsibilities we have accepted and I am not saying to abandon these. If we have taken them on, then it is important we ensure in the process of transitioning to a life on purpose that others are not hurt and abandoned. However, by focusing on being the best we can be in all ways, everyone will benefit when we begin to fulfil our destiny and live the life we truly deserve.

If it all seems to hard, then do not say ‘I can’t’, Instead ask ‘How can I?’, and be open for the answer to come to you in ways you may not even expect.

We are all here to serve by being our glorious selves completely, with no need for excuse or explanation. Live from that space and prepare yourself for magic to happen.

What If You Knew You Could Not Fail?

What Would You Do, If You Knew You Could Not Fail?

Life! Good, bad or indifferent, we are all participating in it. So, how’s it going for you? Do you feel like the captain at the helm, or rather like a feather on the breeze, pulled this way and that, at the mercy of whatever life throws at you?

The truth is, we are all, to some extent, subject to the changing nature of life and what it throws at us. We cannot control every aspect of our lives and if we believe we can then we are deluded. What we can control is our responses to situations and the degree to which we allow life’s events to determine how we live our lives.

‘Failure’ is a nasty word in our language that is used to label and demean and criticise the efforts of others (and ourselves). It is something that paralyses many of us and stops us from trying to achieve our hopes and dreams because of our fear of failure.

Like it or not, life is going to continue to change, move, evolve and happen around us. And the truth of the matter is that the only failure that exists is the failure to participate.

Life is filled with challenges. Many of us consider this to be a bad thing and yet challenge is what helps us to grow and experience and achieve things that we would not achieve otherwise. So are you allowing challenges and the fear of failure to paralyse you and keep you stuck? Or are you willing to think outside the square, get out of your comfort zone and find solutions to those challenges rather than blame them for your current state of affairs.

If we choose to blame events or other people for our circumstances we become victims to life. Blame puts us in a position of powerlessness and takes away our ability to find satisfactory solutions to problems. Life is not defined by the problems we have, but how we choose to meet those problems. The greatest achievements arise out of adversity.

So, as long as you continue to participate, YOU CANNOT FAIL. Sure, you’re going to make some mistakes along the way.  That is all part of the process. You cannot succeed unless you make mistakes. Provided you learn from them, with each mistake you make, you are one step closer to success.

And sometimes success is just one more failure away. How will you know unless you keep trying? There is a terrific saying, “It is better to try and fail than to fail to try”.

So, what’s going to be better for you? To stay a victim, blaming everybody and everything else for your situation, and ultimately never have the opportunity to realise your dreams? Or to keep trying until you succeed and realise your dreams. Because that’s the truth of it. If you don’t give up, you are destined to succeed.

Wishing you success, freedom and happiness,
Marguerita Vorobioff

Millionaire Mindset

Listen to Tony Robbins as he interviews John Reese and discover how he developed the millionaire mindset which led to his record breaking ‘Million Dollar Day’ and how you can do it too!

Realising Happiness

Hi all,

I feel compelled to share my experience with you all from a new phenomenon that is sweeping the world called the Oneness Blessing or Deeksha as it is known in India.

This movement was started a few years ago by two avatars who were born with an extraordinarily high state of consciousness and are now helping others to raise their states of consciousness and free themselves from their pain.  And the best thing is that it is completely passive.  What I mean you don’t have to spend years meditating, or in therapy, or doing anything, except receiving!

Now I’ve either got your interest or you’ve switched off thinking I’ve been taking drugs. Well, I can honestly say I have not.  But the amazing thing is that I really am not interested in what your perception is.  This is a new experience for me!

As you know I am a great advocate of EFT and have had many incredible breakthroughs with Emotional Freedom Technique and still use it almost every day.  I believe it is responsible for helping me being where I am right now in my life.  However, the Deeksha I have received in recent times has accelerated this experience to another extraordinary level.

I had my first Deeksha in about August last year.  It was a group gathering and the blessing givers (there is a 21 day process in India to initiate blessing givers) gave each of us 4 blessings that day.  A blessing entails the giver placing their hands on the receivers head (although the blessing can also be given over distance) and facilitating an energy transfer that closes down the brains primal or fear centres and opens up the frontal cortex which increases our connection to the Divine. 

On this day I felt a sense of peace and tranquility which was nice.  I also noticed brief (very brief) gaps in the incessant thoughts that continually parade through my mind day, after day, after day.  It was nice.

My second gathering I received 3 blessings and again it was nice.  I felt a deeper sense of peace and tranquility and I knew something had shifted but again it was subtle, but the experience was definitely deeper.

The third experience was just a few days ago and the result has been truly profound.  I received 7 blessings that day which kind of blew my circuits a bit.  The following 4 days I was laid very low with a cold which is most unusual for me.  As a health practitioner I am very conscious of my nutrition and I haven’t had such a debilitating experience with sickness for many years.  But through it I knew the reason: I had received a deep spiritual shift and I was cleansing and integrating.

As I began to feel better this afternoon I noticed something very exciting.  I no longer associate happiness with anything “out there”.  I thought I had worked on that issue and I didn’t think that I was dependant on the external to determine how I felt.  How wrong I was.  I won’t waffle on forever as our language is completely inadequate to describe the deep sense of inner peace I now feel. It is the most empowering feeling as I now feel completely free to follow my heart without concern for the outcome.  I now have a deep inner knowing that I am completely supported by the Universe as I allow myself to do whatever fills my heart.  Does this mean I am going to sit on my lounge and watch movies while I eat chips and chocolate for the rest of my life?  Absolutely not!!!  It means my only consideration now is what fills my soul; what inspires me; what is my purpose?  And I know everything else will follow.

I have come a very long way in recent years because of EFT and I have achieved many things subsequently. Also, the work I have done has paved the way for me to be able to make this new profound shift in my life.

As with everything, everybodies experience is different. There were no fireworks or out of body experiences for me. Nothing of the sort. Each shift was subtle and each has deepened my sense of self and connection with the Divine and I am really looking forward to my future Deeksha’s because this part of my journey is just beginning.  How exciting is that?????

If you feel inspired to I encourage you to investigate this beautiful process and make your own decision as to whether if it something you to would like to experience.  Visit www.onenessuniversity.org. 

Your Mind Can Create and Cure Cancer

Hi there,

I discovered this video posted by Dr Mercola and wanted to share it with you all as an inspiration to those with cancer, or any other illness or condition I find it extremely exciting that science is now embracing that anything is possible with the power of the mind.

 

Breakthrough!

Hi there.  Marguerita here, and I just had to share with you one of the most incredible moments of my life that came just 2 days ago. 

But first, a little background.  If you have read my story on this blog, then you will know that my life has been a little ‘different’.  I have tried many things and failed many times.  And when I failed, I would pick myself up, brush myself off, make some changes to my method or direction and try again.  This has not always been easy.  In fact, there have been times when it has been incredibly emotionally distressing.  To keep trying, creating some of the best opportunities possible, and then having them amount to nothing for seemingly no reason, was incredibly frustrating and at times soul destroying. 

Don’t get me wrong.  I have been very blessed in my life and don’t claim to have insurmountable odds to overcome in order to achieve great things.  This has possibly been the most frustrating and confusing thing of all.  To hear inspirational stories of people who have come from circumstances that are so difficult, even desperate, and have achieved things I would not dare to even dream of, would break my heart when I have been gifted with such fortunate circumstances and couldn’t make anything work.  It was incredibly confusing. 

Several years ago I read a book called “The Power of The Subconscious Mind” by Joseph Murphy and this was the beginning of my world in conscious creation.  This developed over the years, to the point where I saw the movie “The Secret” which struck a deep chord within me.  Inspite of the glaring omissions from this movie, I immediately understood its’ message and filled in the blanks from all that I had read over the previous few years and took my conscious creation to a new level.   

I soon discovered some of the most powerful healing tools on the planet and met some very gifted healers who helped accelerate my healing journey.  All the time I asked many questions, including “Why haven’t I been able to achieve my goals and realise my dreams?”.  I kept asking these questions over and over wondering why I wasn’t hearing the answers!  

My healing over the past year during 2007 has been incredibly powerful and accelerated (though often not fast enough as patience is not one of my strong points), and often very difficult.  I have shifted so much subconscious negativity and faced a lot of buried pain.  And, finally, two days ago, came the moment I had been seeking.   

I was sitting with a cherished friend and colleague and we were discussing my gift for expending great amounts of energy and making my life more difficult than it needs to be.  This is a conversation we have had a few times before.  All that we talked about and she shared made so much sense, intellectually and emotionally.  And yet, there was something missing, just as there always had been. 

Then a thought struck me, that fact that the work we do as energy healers brings peoples pain to the surface.  Though we do not cause the pain, we cannot, we are responsible for bringing it to their attention so they can repair the damage and heal.  This is also causing and will continue to cause a great deal of upheaval and confusion within the world as the torment and pollution of the human mind is reflected by the human condition and mother nature.  Collectively, the healers work rocks the foundations of the human spirit and consequently the world.  This is necessary, but this is why I have continued to sabotage everything I have ever strived for.   

Subconsciously I have been unwilling to admit that my work will cause people to acutely feel their pain and this was unacceptable to me.  I want to heal peoples’ pain, not cause them to feel the depth of it.  So, subconsciously I put the breaks on.  I refused to allow myself to succeed if this is what it meant.  I wanted no part of it.   This realisation immediately bought a flood of tears.  I finally heard the answer I had been seeking. 

This understanding now means I can step into my truth fully, be who I truly am, and realise all my dreams.  Do I want to witness the pain of others?  Of course not!  But I know that in realising the pain they have pushed deep inside that people can heal and become whole.  How do I know this? Because this is what I have recently done. 

I still have more work to do to continue my healing journey. I don’t think that will ever end during my life time.  But I believe I have healed the worst of my pain. So, the 20^th of December 2007 will forever be one of the most empowering moments in my life and I am so excited about my future.  I now believe that there is nothing I cannot achieve. I hope my story inspires you to seek healing, follow your passion and realise your dreams. 

Love,
Marguerita

My Place

Hy’all.

For friends who haven’t seen where we live, I’ve put a short video here.  We are so incredibly happy in our new home.  I’m sure you’ll understand why when you see the video.

Love to you all,
Marguerita